Sex Counselling Expert - Relationship Therapy - Couples Therapy

We still love each other, but I find I'm bored with my partner, and I feel put off when I see them naked. It's easy to re-ignite your sexual feelings towards your partner through sensual play and good communication, once you commit to doing so. Communication strategies are key to negotiating improvements in your relationship and connecting once again with your partner. If the problem is also that your partner is really out of shape, they will need your support to make positive changes in the relationship. Making effort when you feel supported by your partner is quite different from trying to do so when you feel judged or undermined. To get started right now, fill in the form below for your Special Report on Improving Your Sexual Relationship! Together with this you'll get an assesment tool which you can use to think about your goals. Look at my Special Report on Arousal.

I don't feel confident about the size of my genitals - is there anything I can do? A personal growth programme which looks at body image and self esteem would help. My 7 Steps programme will offer suggest activities which build appreciation and self esteem. Alternatively, you can book a personal consultation.

My boyfriend says there's something wrong with me because I don't respond like his last girlfriend. I enjoy sex at times but I've never really got excited. What does an orgasm feel like? 7 Steps, my personal growth programme, concentrates on exploring your sensual and sexual pleasure in detail. It's an enjoyable way to explore how to identify and optimise your orgasm! If our telephone seminar on Orgasm - for Women, is scheduled soon, you may want to listen in to the lecture and discussion. There are a range of Special Reports that will help you!

Everything seems to be in good working order. I just don't enjoy sex that much. Maybe you have a problem with desire or arousal - we have lots of suggestions for re-awakening your desire and deepening your relationship. Start with the questionnaire and one of the range of special reports listed below to focus on the areas you're not happy with and would like to improve. Look at my Special Report on Enriching your Sex Life

I find it hard to control the amount of time I spend on internet sex sites- and I'm worried because I've been involved in some steamy fantasy stuff. I want to take it further but if my wife found out she'd leave me. Join our seminar on 'Internet and Porn Addiction' scheduled for 2nd December, 2008 at 8pm, or book an Individual Consultation at a time to suit you.

I've been prescribed Cialis, which friends tell me is pretty much the same as Viagra. I tried it once but it didn't help. Pde5 inhibitors help about 75% of men who try them. They are usually effective if you don't have serious damage (for instance after surgery). There are plenty of things you can do to optimise your response. Consider joining in our uniquely informative seminar on how to incorporate these drugs into your sex life. Look at my special reports to gather useful tips on Enhancing Erections and Pleasure.

I don't feel confident about my body, and this is stopping me from being sexual. Good sex depends on feeling good about yourself and your body - this is fundamental to enjoying being sexual and creating the good sex that you want. You may also like to join us on our seminars, 'Getting sex back into your life' or 'What do women want?'

Premature ejaculation ruined my last relationship. Can I work on this before I start another one? Now is the perfect time to work on this problem. Don't wait until you are in a new relationship! You can definitely train yourself to last longer - and what's more, you get more pleasure too!

I can't take Viagra because I have to carry nitrate medication in case I get heart symptoms. Is there anything else I can do to get an erection? There are a number of other mechanical aids you can use - we'll discuss these as well as sex therapy strategies during our seminar on erections.

I have never had sex because my vagina feels too tight - and I'm scared of hurting myself. You may have vaginismus - there are practical strategies for dealing with this problem very effectively. See my Special Report. You may want to book a private consultation.

Can I do anything about my impotence if I have diabetes? There are practical aids and plenty of tips for improving sensation and pleasure - we'll discuss these in our telephone seminar on Difficulty with Erections .